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The Inner Circle · doors open early
Stop figuring out your FLR alone.
The Inner Circle is our private, members-only group on Telegram, for people living a Female Led Relationship or learning toward one. Sahil and I answer your questions every week, meet you live once a month, and open my whole library to you.
$40for your first three monthsThat is $13.33 a month.
4 of 5 left at this price
The doors are open early. Come in today. The conversation begins on Sunday 15 November.
- Nothing renews by itself
- Leave whenever you like
- Any name you like
Sound familiar?
Most people try to work this out on their own.
- You have read every article about FLR, and you still have nobody to ask the question that is really about you.
- You want her to lead, and you do not know how to raise it without it going wrong.
- You want to lead, and part of you still feels guilty for wanting it.
- She is curious, and neither of you knows what the next step looks like.
- You cannot talk about this with friends, and online it is mostly fantasy, not real marriages.
- You have started before, and it faded after a few weeks.
We have been answering questions like these for years. In the Inner Circle, we answer yours, every week.
What a seat includes
Everything you get as a member.
A private Telegram group
A members-only group that Sahil and I run ourselves. Ask the things you cannot ask anywhere else. Use any name you like, keep your phone number hidden, and nothing posted there is shared outside it. We are in it every week.
A live hour with both of us, every month
We meet members live for an hour every month. The day and time are shared in the Telegram group. Send your questions ahead from your members' page, and keep your camera off if you like. Every session is recorded for anyone who cannot be there.
For comparison, a private hour with me is $999, or $129 with Sahil.
Our answers, every week
Send your question from your members' page, under any name you like, or post it in the group. Every week we answer the best of them by voice note, properly, not in a single line.
The members' library
All eight of my books, the Locktober stories, and a novel that only members can read, with new chapters every Sunday. You read them here on the site, for as long as you are a member.
Every seasonal pass, included
Locktober and every campaign after it, free while you are a member.
Sana Chat, without the free daily limit
Talk to me in Sana Chat far past the free daily limit, for as long as you are a member.
25% off any course
Twenty-five percent off any course in the Academy, whenever you are ready for one.
In our shop, the books and one seasonal pass alone cost$54.92
Your seat, with everything above$40 for three months
Founding seats. The earlier you join, the less you pay.
The first five seats are $30, the next five are $40, and every seat after that is $59. Each price is for your first three months.
Next five
$40for your first three months$13.33 a month
4 of 5 left
Everyone after
$59for your first three months$19.67 a month
Opens when the seats above are gone
After your first three months, it is $24.99 a month. Nothing renews by itself. A week before your three months are up, we ask whether you want to stay.
Take a seat for $40Paid securely through PayPal, in US dollars. All we need is an email and any name you like.
We said it would open. It is open.
Promise kept
The doors are open.
We promised the Inner Circle would open, or every payment would be refunded. It opened early, so you can come in today, before the conversation begins on Sunday 15 November.
Nothing renews by itself.
You pay once for your first three months. A week before they are up, we ask whether you want to stay.
Leave whenever you like.
Stay at $24.99 a month, or leave and owe nothing.
How to join
From your seat to inside the group, in about two minutes.
Everything happens by email and in Telegram. You never need your real name, and your phone number can stay hidden from everyone.
- 1
Take your founding seat.
Pay once through PayPal for your first three months. All we need is an email and any name you like.
- 2
Two emails arrive, straight away.
Your welcome first, then your invitation, “Come in early”, with your own button into the group. Not there? Look in Promotions or Spam for Sana and Sahil.
- 3
Get Telegram ready.
Install it (it is free), give your profile a name and a username that are not your real name, and hide your phone number. The guide below shows where each setting is.
- 4
Tap the button in your invitation.
Telegram opens a chat with our bot. Tap Start, read the four house rules, and tap I accept.
- 5
Tap Join, then Request to Join.
The bot sends your own way in. Tap Join the Inner Circle, then Request to Join. It checks your seat and lets you in at once.
Once you are in
Keep it on your phone
The step-by-step guide
Every tap with a picture, what to do if a link does not work, and the privacy settings we recommend.
Download the guide (PDF)Already have a seat? Your members’ page shows whether you are in the group, with your way in and the question box.
Who you will be learning from
Two people who live it, every day.
Sahil and I have lived a Female Led Relationship every day since 2021, and everything we teach, we live first. I have written eight books and four courses about it, and in October 2026, 299 people joined Locktober with us.
- Since 2021living it every day
- 8books
- 4courses
- 299joined Locktober
What people write to us
My relationship with my wife improved drastically after reading your blogs. Keep them coming, please.
A husband, via the blog
The counselling was really helpful. It gave me huge clarity on the things I need to work on. Thank you.
A counselling client
Yours is the only website I can share with my wife without scaring her off.
A husband
Real messages. Names withheld, as always.
Discretion, as always.
We built the Inner Circle for people who need it to stay private.
Any name you like
In the group you go by any name you choose. Nobody needs your real one.
Your number, hidden
On Telegram you can hide your phone number completely (Settings › Privacy and Security › Phone Number › Nobody), and your welcome email walks you through it.
Nothing leaves the group
Nothing posted in the group is shared outside it.
Never published
We never publish a name, a face or an email.
Is it for you?
It is for you if you are
- Men who want to serve their partner well, and want guidance from a couple who live it.
- Women who lead, or want to, and want to hear it from a woman who does.
- Couples who want their FLR to last for years, not weeks.
- Anyone new to this who wants to start properly.
It is not for
- Anyone looking for fantasy without a real relationship behind it.
- Anyone who cannot keep what other members share to themselves.
- Anyone who only wants to be told what they want to hear.
Questions.
Do I need Telegram?
Yes. It is free on every phone and computer, and it lets you stay anonymous: any name you like, your number hidden, and nothing else.
I have paid. How do I get in?
Two emails arrive straight away: your welcome, then your invitation. Tap the button in your invitation, then Start, I accept and Request to Join in Telegram, and you are in. Every step is here.
My invitation email has not arrived.
Look in Promotions or Spam for Sana and Sahil first. Still nothing? Open your members’ page, type the email you used for your seat, and we send your link again. Or write to us through the contact page.
What happens after three months?
You choose. Stay at $24.99 a month, or leave and owe nothing. We ask a week before your time is up.
I already support you on Patreon.
If you are on the Inner Circle tier or Miss Sana's Closest, connect your Patreon and you are in at once. Connect your Patreon
I kept Locktober.
If you held a Locktober pass, or finished in the top five on the final board, your first month is on us, and we email you to say so. You can still take a founding seat at today's price: the free month is added to your three months, so you lose nothing by not waiting.
What if I cannot make the live hour?
Every live hour is recorded, and the recording goes on your members' page the same week.
How do I send you a question?
From your members’ page: the question box is near the top. Sign it with any name you like. Every week we answer the best questions by voice note in the group, and we keep the big ones for the live hour. Once the conversation has begun, you can also post a question in the group.
I am new to this. Is it too early to join?
No. The Inner Circle is for people learning toward an FLR as much as for people living one. Ask the beginner's question. That is what we are there for.
Can I pay another way?
For now, only through PayPal, in US dollars.
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